In a relationship, a woman needs her space to do what she enjoys weather that be shopping, getting her hair and nails don etc. A man needs his space also whether that be watching a game, playing video games, or playing cards.
If you trust your partner give each other space within reason, without complaint. If you don’t trust your partner, you need to leave and get your peace of mind, happiness and joy back. No one is worth constant, worry questioning and stress not knowing what or who their partner is doing.
Every relationship get boring and it will get boring after you’ve been together for years. It’s always fun at the beginning. It’s always exciting when you’re getting to know each other. It’s always thrilling to chase one another. Eventually, it gets hard.
Eventually, it becomes difficult. Eventually it drains you. That’s when people tend to quit go look for someone else because “the spark is gone” and they want to feel wanted and admired loved again. But listen, that’s not how it’s supposed to be. No, that’s not how it works.
It doesn’t have to be that way. Even when it does get boring, that’s when you’re supposed to remember why you’re with that person in the first place and it’s never too late to find that happiness that you both once found together because the truth is, it’s always been there and it never left.
Even when it feels like feelings are fading, that’s when you’re supposed to know how much this persons means to you and what losing them would be like because being able to love someone even when they’re being hard to love shows that your feelings never left.
Even when it feels like you’re done, that’s when you’re supposed to realize that no matter whom you’re with, it’s always going to get “boring” so you might as well be with someone who’s willing to love you unconditionally and never give up on you.
A relationship without trust is like having a phone with no service. And what do you do with a phone with no service? You play games.